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Friday, March 25, 2011

LOVE POEM

My Love... Everlasting

You were a dream...
A dream that filled my thoughts
and my loneliest nights.

You were the dream I held on to,
the dream my heart longed to one day have.

You were the dream that made me smile...
an escape from my reality,
a fantasy I longed to one day come true.

Once only my dream, my escape, my fantasy,
came true the day when I first saw you.

My dream that used to be
is now my reality.

A fantasy waiting for its happy ending
is now a fairytale come true.

Once my only escape...
is now the comfort that I live for.

Together we have been through the heartaches...
the pain of walking away or being left behind.

Every new road we had to take
because of the choices we had to make,
only paved the road
that brought us closer to one another.

Life may not be easy,
with all the burdens and drama
that life hands to us,
but when you find someone
to share your life with,
no drama is hard to handle...
no burden is hard to bare.

When you have someone...
the one that you've dreamed of...
then your life becomes the escape you both take
to get away from the reality that surrounds.

I know because...
I found the love...
my lifetime partner
my soul mate
in YOU!


































TOP 10 SIGNS THAT SHOW THE MAN IS INTO YOU

It is said that the love of a man for a woman could be recognized very easily but it is very difficult to define it. However, here are a few tips that  can help you see if the man of your interest is into you:

  1. The man can't seem to stop talking to you everyday.
  2. He is not dating anybody else except you.
  3. He starts treating your mother the way he treats his own mother.
  4. He starts using words like “we”, “our”, and  “us” more during conversations with you, particularly when he is talking about the future.
  5. He is keeping a photo of yours on his desk.
  6. He starts keeping your favorite food items in his refrigerator.
  7. He bestows top priority to you over his work and other relationships.
  8. He keeps saying nice things about you when he talks to his friends.
  9. He does all your errands without the least hesitation.
  10. He keeps looking at you in the most admiring way even when other women are around. 

FIRST LOVE

First love in teenage is much more fierce than the first love in adulthood. However, the teenage love usually evaporates very fast. A survey result reveals that first love relationships last only for 3 or 4 months for persons at the age of 15. Psychologists identify the 3 phases of first love as lust, attraction, and attachment. The close intimacy developed during the period of first love must necessarily involve openness, trust and a sharing attitude. This would lead to maturity and help the relationship last longer.
Normally first love is not the childhood infatuation on a teacher or a movie star. It is the first relationship or attraction of a romantic nature experienced in adolescence. Memories of first love are mostly fond ones but in certain cases, the memories could be highly painful also. Those who had experienced feelings of happiness, enthusiasm, excitement, and pride in their first love are much more likely to have stable, enduring relationships in their later lives.  
On the other hand, those who went through feelings of shame, guilt, hostility or fright during their first love tend to have weak relationships with others.
Even though it is true that we could fall in love any number of times in our life, the memories of first love would always remain fresh and occupy a special place in our hearts. A Turkish proverb says that young love is from the earth, and late love is from heaven. When we are young, we have high energy levels and our hormones are on overdrive. This could lead to an exhilarating feeling but there are dangers if emotions are not properly controlled at this stage. The obvious dangers are premature pregnancy, HIV, drug addiction, etc. Still, one danger that most people never consider is a wrong relationship. Unless you are clear as to what you expect from your first love, you might end up only with a sad experience.